I’ve seen numerous posts about privilege on my dash lately and there seems to have been a communication problem.
This is super obvious, but I feel like I need to point out most of us have advantages in some areas and disadvantages in others. When you see a post about a privilege you have but think “Hey - I’m not privileged because <this>,” you’re actually recognizing the <this> privilege of others (Which is good! It’s a first step!), but you’re forgetting about your own advantages.
For example, I’m a straight (societal advantage), white (societal advantage), financially secure (societal advantage), atheist (societal disadvantage), married (societal advantage) woman (societal disadvantage) and I occasionally struggle with depression (societal disadvantage).
In discussions about a topic where I have a societal advantage, I need to remember to A) shut up so the disadvantaged have space to speak, vent and state what they need and B) speak up within my advantaged group and share that message.
In discussions about a topic where I have a societal disadvantage, I need to remember my privileges will mitigate my experiences.
It’s really that simple.
Brilliant, JJ. :D
“Astronomy defined our home as a small planet tucked away in one corner of an average galaxy among million; biology took away our status as paragons created in the image of God; geology gave us the immensity of time and taught us how little of it our own species has occupied.”
do u guys understand how creepy the pledge of allegiance is though like every day when ur a kid everybody just chants how great america is every morning it’s creepy
You do that every morning???
is this a real thing i thought that was just in the simpsons
Wait, other countries don’t do this.
*whispers* Not even Russia
In high school I refused to take part in it. There was no thought to standing and reciting the words and I don’t like mindless/thoughtless gestures like that. I got in trouble, of course, but in my mind there was more intent/exercise of freedom in not saying it and remaining seated than mindlessly capitulating with a system that felt very much like brainwashing.
a woman be more
To be white, or straight, or male, or middle class is to be simultaneously ubiquitious and invisible. You’re everywhere you look, you’re the standard against which everyone else is measured. You’re like water, like air. People will tell you they went to see a “woman doctor” or they will say they went to see “the doctor.” People will tell you they have a “gay colleague” or they’ll tell you about a colleague. A white person will be happy to tell you about a “Black friend,” but when that same person simply mentions a “friend,” everyone will assume the person is white. Any college course that doesn’t have the word “woman” or “gay” or “minority” in its title is a course about men, heterosexuals, and white people. But we call those courses “literature,” “history” or “political science.”
This invisibility is political.”